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5 Secret Reasons Why Marriages Fail

Modern lifestyles and practices relating to marriage are not working. The present divorce rate has skyrocketed to an astounding 50 per cent... Our parents or grandparents usually remained joined in matrimony.. Let's look at 5 of the major reasons that marriages fail.

1. Pre-Marital Behavior Can Lead to Marital Woes

The progressive way of thinking is that people should experience sex as a part of the single lifestyle before marriage. It's almost considered a part of growing up, and is often more of a problem for men than women. I have given reasons for this in my article, "Do Women Have as Strong of Sex Drives as Men?"

To make matters worse, people move in together and they also believe this is a wise move. The line of thinking is that they should "try things out before making a commitment" and they come up with other justifications.

I respectfully suggest that that the proper, traditional protocol is necessary for a marriage to have the best chances of success. When two virtuous people join themselves in marriage, it's different, and I'll leave it at that.

2. "Oh Say Can You See?" Disregard for the Marriage Vows

"Until death do us part" and the other serious promises answered with "I do" seem to be a dry recitation for many. How many people take this seriously as a vow before God with a commitment in their hearts? Has is it become like noise or listening to the national anthem before a game, without being patriotic?

3. "I Now Pronounce You Husband and Wife"

"Man and wife" has been replaced with the politically correct "husband and wife," by which liberals are appeased and their wrath is placated. The traditional vows that worked for centuries have been supplanted by modern ones, and this has had a horrible, detrimental result. The role of the husband as a loving, caring leader in the home has been changed to that of an "equal partner." Many marriages subsequently lack a real man and have failed as a consequence.

The absence of understanding and the rejection of traditional roles have brought about a state of confusion, a lack of direction and have contributed to many breakups. I'm certain the feminists will dispute this vehemently, but I assure you it's true.

4. "I Want to be Happy" is More Important than Commitment

I don't belong to a church, I rarely read the Bible and I seldom quote scriptures. I do, however, believe what it says:

"But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, causes her to become an adulteress, and anyone who marries the divorced woman commits adultery." Matthew 5:32

Many people have not taken note of this important teaching. They believe that the primary concern is to "be happy," and when problems arise, they might cheat, get a divorce or both. There is a big problem today with going from one partner to another, in an endless quest to find Mr. or Ms. Right and to "be happy."

Broken homes are often the result. We hear people talk about their "ex's," and this term has even become fashionable. In addition, step parents have become commonplace and children suffer because of their parents' lack of dedication.

5. Drive-Through Divorce Provides an Easy Fix

In our day and age, there are providers of the easy way out for all sorts of situations where exercising responsibility is the favorable alternative and the sensible course of action. Divorce attorneys have risen to the occasion, enabling people to "move on" on "go on with their lives," as if that's admirable. I would just about like to see divorce made illegal, except on the grounds of unfaithfulness as mentioned above. In any event, modifications are definitely in order.

Not long ago, we had bankruptcy reform because people were abusing the system, and this was also an easy, superficial solution for problems that people often created for themselves. I maintain that a similar situation exists regarding marriage and divorce.

I hope this brings about a deeper level of understanding and that we can once again have a high marriage success rate. Marriage and families have been the foundation of all strong nations, and their breakdown creates a negative, chaotic effect in society. I wish everyone the best in life.